"No discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but grievous; yet afterward to those who have been trained by it it yields peaceable fruit, namely, righteousness."—HEBREWS 12:11.
I hate when they use this scripture to justify their harrassment of people just trying to live their lives. Okay, let's play Devil's advocate here for a second and assume that disfellowshipping really is a beneficial arrangement (just bear with me...). Even if that were true, by what authority does some guy in a cheap suit with little or no education have to render such a serious judgment? It's nuts. Hell, what's to stop me from assuming such authority? What prevents me from walking around DFing people?
Let me get this straight, then: A guy goes out in field service alot, comments alot and cleans the KH toilets regularly. So the CO comes around and asks about this guy and the elders say he's a great guy because he goes out in field service, comments and cleans toilets. So the CO writes a goofy recommendation and mails it up to Bethel. The Service Department or whatever opens it up, looks at how many magazines he places, shrugs then send back the approval. A month later he's an elder and now has authority to render a judgment against a woman that would prevent her own biological children from speaking to her.
Makes complete sense, right?